Hello, I am Manpreet Kaur. Currently, I am doing my vocational B.Pharmacy degree. This story is based upon my life. So it was about that days when I was of just 13 years old means I was in juviline phase of life. That stage when a child is still immature and I was also the same. but my family think I’m bit differ from others because my behave was like child of age 10. Well my dad think its just because i m the only girl in family and my maternal family loves me so much they treat me like a little baby that is why I m as it is and if they talk about paternal family there was also bit same i was too cute and my paternal family include many members like aunt,uncle,cousin, brothers and sisters.
That time i was totally independent. I think there was 5 houses where my paternal family members used to live. And it was me only who daily roam in all houses and do whatever i want there like to eat anything, to annoy anyone, even to vanish or to destroy anything which I don’t like because i was only little girl that time even in my street i was only girl all others were boys and you know what was best thing that they all was younger than me so usually i scold them even beat them…..it was all about fun nothing more.
From early morning i start doing stupid things till 9 pm after that moment when all other uncle, aunt, bro, sis go to their homes. So ,it was all about my childhood in paternal family now i move to my maternal family. Well in my whole family, we were just four girls from which two were in Hyderabad they don’t like to come Punjab and my one cousin sister (Ashu). She was I think that time was just of 7-8 years old and she was very extraordinary because she don’t like to talk with anyone, what she do whole day that after school come home and then finally after taking his lunch went and lock herself in her room and used to do dance ,study ,watch TV and enough .She never used to mix up with others..
That’s why one remain me who become the cutie pie of everyone my bros loved me very much. I enjoyed alot there And there was a cousin of mine name Gurjot (guggu).but i use to call him pa. Now lets begin with a very interesting part of this story.
Actually my all maternal cousins who were elder than me that time have there girlfriends so that time I thought that it is just a fashion to have a partner .So i also wish to have a boyfriend……..Finally one day i was sitting outside of my house and a boy named Rahul came there and threw a slip..When i opened that it was his phone number.Then I called him and he asked from me that I would be his girlfriend? That time i used to laugh very much he again asked will you marry me? That time there was no limits of my happiness. After finishing conversation with him I called pa and told him that I also have boyfriend but he did not bother me…not even guggu pa all that persons to whom I was telling this thing was not bothering me.
But everyday me and Rahul stare each other. Actually he was my senior so in break or any free time both of us stood at the doors of our classrooms and just blush…ya sometimes we used to call each other..After that finally summer vacations announced and i moved to Ropar. There I discussed with my maternal aunt and uncle that i want to marry a guy so please lets go and buy red bangles for me then they only used to laugh. Some family members just said ok ok….now go and play …..then suddenly guggu pa came both of us went upstairs again I use to convince him that really i have a bf..but again he refused to accept this.
I was in too much anger then I went down stairs ,and after 5 mins come back having cell phone and in front of my brother I called Rahul and said I love u and I don’t know what happened to bro, he was totally in shock when I told Rahul that talk with my brother because he was not believing me that I also have a boyfriend. Rahul suddenly cut the call .Now what happens after finishing dinner me and bro come to our room and as we usually do hug each other and talk till midnight . But that night was much different bro was feeling very insecure that night then he tried to make me understand about our culture and happenings which he usually heard about young girls and boys ..That day I realize that ya its not a good thing then I back up and move on after that i never used to call Rahul and 1st love story ends here…
After all this stupidity, one day my friends in school were discussing about mensuration they all were suffering from mensuration and they ask me but i answered them that this shit is not happening with me when I come to home, I talk with my dad’s sis. Then she discussed with my grand ma and next day I was in hospital.Well hospital was not a big deal for me because my granny was a nurse and usually I used to went hospital just for fun and also for medicine because i was suffering from problem of uric acid. From that day my granny console about me from many doctors. Daily I took a big amount of medicines then it became a habit of mine.
Even I start feeling very guilty because all this force me to think that I am not a normal girl.
After my 10th, My parents sent me to Chandigarh by saying that i will be there because of my holidays only and it will be great fun there,…BUT…….O… No what happened with me they were sending me in hospital PGI, where daily doctors treat me like an experimental species so that to found whats going on inside my body.
Well I made some friends there like doctors, patients even nurses and other staff also.There was also a patient who became my best friend there and she was married. She have menopause(stoppage of mensuration),because of which one day her impure blood spread all in his body and she died in front of my eyes.That day become a changing day of my life I started living in a phobia of death…
After one and half month when doctors finally gave a result that I have just water balls inside my ovary so they prescribed me medicine and let me to went home. When I reached home, my family members were very happy. My dad took me to an another school and I got admission there. My whole life was changed no old friends, no old environment ,no that type of fun even no that cuteness.
I became studious simple girl who never even try to make noise no more fun and just like to study alone. I had passed my two years in that school and in that period, I was totally out of contacts with my siblings. Only books were my friends there because that school was totally different from my previous one..I passed my whole day in missing all those memories.
Then one day A boy from that school tell me a story ,”STORY OF A SNAKE”. He said that you know when a snake catcher used his snake flute, Then why a snake comes out ? Although snake knows that person probably gonna harm him but still he comes out from his home? I was silent. Then as a studious girl I answered very wisely that due to sound waves…..well it was not a right answer so he laughed and then told me that its not because of sound waves……its just because that snake knows that its all previously made up by this ancestors ,so its their job and his ancestors also believe that their posterity will gonna obey it. That’s why he come from his house even he know it’s very dangerous.
Same like this you. Your elder ones want that you also become something like them that’s why they have sent you in this school and if you passed all this precious time by crying then you did not reach to the goal …So be a good girl and try to work hard and from that day I start working hard and finally I passed out from that school as 2nd topper. My picture was on posters ,newspapers and I was very elated.
Well school life finished . Like others I was also so baffled. Everyone was thinking about me that what will next then I joined IELTS and communication skill classes. But it was all about my siblings wish I was not in decision to leave INDIA. Then finally after so many dramas I took admission in B.Pharmacy in CT INSTITUTION JALANDHAR.
Wow 1st day of collage………new bag, new clothes, new ideas , curiosity to know about college life , about new friends, new goals of life……Many things was revolving around my mind.. I was very happy then by GOD’s will i found friends who are same as me .. my classmates all are very nice like my Ist school and I start living in this college as in my 1st school all that things come back.. All my classmates are friends. We live like family ,no love birds in class ,supporting ,helping.
In all these i was totally forget about my disease, I am enjoying my life. But one day, I suddenly fall down ,Doctors came home and when I opened my eyes, I was in Amritsar hospital. I met Dr. Shina, he was very nice. He make me realize that i am a special girl . All others girls are normal yes it is and anyone can marry them but me i will marry to only a special guy who 1st will accept my all limitations .My thinking level gradually tend to change .I become a strong girl.