You can’t believe a man without legs and arms is living his life very ordinarily

Nick Vujicic was born to Dushka and Boris Vujicic in 1982 in Melbourne, Australia. Although he was an otherwise healthy baby, Nick was born without arms and legs; he had no legs, but two small feet, one of which had two toes.

 

He also struggled with depression and loneliness as he questioned why he was different from all the other kids. He couldn’t get the haunting question of ‘Why was I the one born without arms and legs?”

Vujicic started his speaking engagements at 19. In 2005, he founded an international non-profit organisation and ministry, Life Without Limbs.

In 2007, Vujicic founded Attitude is Altitude, a secular motivational speaking company. He starred in the short film The Butterfly Circus. At the 2010 Method Fest Independent Film Festival, he was awarded Best Actor in a Short Film for his starring performance as Will.

Nick eventually made the move from Brisbane, Australia to Los Angeles, California, where he is the founder and president of an international nonprofit organization, Life Without Limbs, and owns the motivational speaking company, Attitude Is Altitude. He married the love of his life, Kanae, in 2012, welcoming their first son, Kiyoshi, in February 2013 and their second son Dejan, in September 2015.

 

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Some Additional life hacks to grow a positive attitude

“Always strive to aim for the highest peak of the goals in life you have set, this way if you manage to reach even half way toward a goal, landing in the middle is not such a bad place to end up.”

 

The words that we use have a lot more power than we think. How you talk about your life is how your life will be. Your mind hears what you say. If you describe your life as boring, busy, mundane, chaotic, that is how you will percieve it and you will feel the effects in your body and mind. If you use the words simple, involved, familiar or lively, you will see your life in a whole different light and find more enjoyment in the way you chose to shape your life.

 

A study from US data suggests that having a positive attitude is not only has a direct effect on your happiness, it is also correlated with your earning wage.

 

You probably will not need a lot of convincing to at least give it a try. After all, what do you have to lose? People let their attitude guide them all of the time. Unfortunately, most of the time, the attitude is a negative one. It is often easier to see how a negative attitude influences your life. This is just human nature to see negative over positive. We are more often drawn to drawing out the negative over the positive. Pessimistic attitudes seem to flood the world, while optimism is slowly drowning.

 

Read books with a positive message, listen to music with uplifting lyrics, and watch movies in which the protagonist’s optimism helps him/her to overcome obstacles and win, despite the odds. Change your attitude for the better by uploading as much positivity into your brain as you possibly can.

 

A positive attitude leads to happiness and success and can change your whole life. If you look at the bright side of life, your whole life becomes filled with light. This light affects not only you and the way you look at the world, but it also affects your environment and the people around you.

 

“Separate yourself from those who hinder your vision. Make a choice to walk away from the trap set to ensnare you. Realize when someone is pulling you backwards every time you take a step forward. Separate from them and the result of your action will be a life of success.

 

 

 

Remember these simple life hacks for living a happy(positive) life

After meeting with my doctor, I saw a blunder change in me. I started living like a happy girl who never upset but when I remain alone these things surround me and somehow these things caught me in their net which makes me weep a lot.
But my family members thanks to them who have faith in god and always use to convince me god is here for you and what u have to do is just reading scriptures and then see the magic as a littlt girl I do this for some days after that I totally fed up because of this believe because nothing has happened right.

Then a most important person of my life came and make me understand many things and she was my dad’s sister “bua” with whom my relation is what we cant define in words she cares alot like a mom, we share everything like best friends, we used to fight a lot like sisters.

She taught me like a teacher and she make me understand many things about life -world like a Guru. And second one was dad. Dad is my dominating personality he has strong believe in God.
Most of the time he used to read scriptures then all these things throw me in a ugly centered stage where only two choices were their belive or belive not. Then as the love side of my family is much heavier than my stupid thinking so I took decision that yes probably I will do what dad and bua told me.
That time I was also not sure that god will help me or not but ya this thing was in my mind that bua n dad never can show hypocracy to me.

As days passed finally after a month it become my habit to read scriptures everyday . It start giving pleasure to my mind a satisfaction and a belief comes and make his own home in my heart and mind that if i do not read scripture whole day will be very disgraceful. So daily first i get up and after taking bath i read then after that do anything else.

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And a shocking result u can never believe after some months i don’t know what comes in my mind i give up taking all medicines and what i do is just believe in god,there was my classmate Tajinder he always use to tell about god ‘s power, may it was always because of his comments means all of them make me to have strong believe and finally i become totally ohk.

A girl with a great smile always on face having no problem a proper normal girl even traces of disease was not there.

Thanks you all of u .

And the most biggest thing which i realize that our elders never wrong ,they suggest us from their experiences because they want that from the sufferings they had suffered we should not face them because we are so delicate for them that they think their children can’t tackle anything even a small hardness.

And the other one is god is always their for you. you belive or not is your headache but trust me guys if you have strong belief and read scriptures one day a magic will occur in your life and that will make finite all these guilty things happening in your life because of which you are angry from god and have no belief that magic will change your whole life at an extent upto which even your thinking level can’t reach.

Thats why whenever anyone told me something not happening good in their lives i only suggest them to have belief in God and as you all read earlier i am also saying by my experience. So please atleast try it ones in your life.

Thank you bua g and pappa because of whom today i m a girl to whom everyone like and love because of a happy face LOVE U ALOT which words can’t describe.

FACTORS AFFECTING THINKING >>>
AGE>
Infancy >>> It is the age period of 1-3 years after birth in which there is no space at all of negative thinking even there is no thinking.Everything is without target ,just get up and do at all whatever you want ,does not matter that who think what think in what way a person consider you.Just do that what gives you happiness from inside.

Childhood >>> when we were younger most of us had put our arms in shirts and told people i have lost my arms. we would restart video game whenever i knew i was going to lose. We would sleep with all the stuffed animals so none of them would get offended. We had that one pen with 6 colours and tried to push all buttons at once.We would wait behind the door to scare someone but left because they took long.

We would fake being asleep so that dad would carry us to bed. We used to think that moon is followed my car. We used to swallow fruit seeds and get scared to death that a tree was going to grow in our tummies.Remember when we were child and could not wait to grow up? What were we thinking ? Actually that time we also was confused that yes we were sat silently for few minutes but we ourselves don’t know what we were thinking?

Late childhood >>> That time period when a child’s thinking level change daily if today he is thinking to become a pilot then tomorrow may be he can a doctor and after some days he can be a inspector ,nothing is fix. Daily new ideas new thinking new inspirations and sincerity can never be find just innocence cuteness .

Adolescent >>>Now time begins when thinking starts and and it reaches to peak level. A very confused age when everything shows 2 sides whenever someone thinks that it is wrong then also so many questions arise that why it is right and another one is wrong ?what reasons behind it ?

But in this age if anyone thinks positive then only can he or she survive happily .this is the stage when we learn many things so keep it in right way.

Mid life >>> After many years in young adulthood of following society scripts for creating a life, people in midlife often take a break from worldly responsibilities to reflect upon the deeper meaning of their lives the better to forge ahead with new understanding.

Why you should bath everyday?

It’s true. We’re told by parents, friends and media that we have to regularly shave, moisturize, shower and shampoo to stay clean and smelling fresh. But the truth is that showering once a day dries out your skin and removes essential oils.

 

Dermatologists say, the more you wash, especially in hot water, the more likely you are to dry out and irritate your skin. You could be washing away good bacteria that naturally helps your skin and make small cracks that can lead to skin infections.

First of all, the toddler years are also years when a child’s body is still developing, including the immune system. If it is the germs that worry you, don’t fret. Germs aren’t always a bad thing.

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Children are supposed to come into contact with germs. This is the only way their bodies learn how to fight off bacteria, which can cause illness, so a few germs left behind after a day’s play isn’t all that horrible.

I like being clean and I usually enjoy the luxury of a daily shower or two in the summer – I do see it as a luxury. I say usually because there are times when I don’t shower daily especially in the winter. I often strip wash in the morning if I had a bath before bed or I am in a rush in the morning for whatever reason. On my day off, I sometimes don’t bathe at all if I am having a pajama day and have showered or bathed before bed.

I would imagine we waste untold amounts of water on bathing that could be skipped, cut down (time wise) or replaced with a strip wash with no negative effects to anyone’s health. I think it is a subject that we ought to become more open/educated about and certainly less judgemental. I’m sure we could learn a lot from countries or areas where they bathe less and treat water as a precious luxury.

Health benefits:

Reduces muscle tension:

A simple warm bath can help you to reduce the number of trips to a physiotherapist. Bathing reduces tension on overstretched muscles. It helps to heal sore muscles by relaxing them and improves flexibility or elasticity of muscles, especially when you bathe after exercising. Here are some expert tips to get rid of post-workout muscle soreness.

Cure depression:

Specifically for depression, then shower with warm water will ease your suffering. Bath has a positive psychological effect on the mind.

Steam Helps To Reduce Cold Symptoms:

One of the warm bath’s better qualities is as a treatment for symptoms is its function for winter cold-sufferers. We can’t make the common cold vanish, but getting yourself submerged in hot water targets two different elements of cold-management: steam therapy and overall body temperature.

The inhalation of steam is an excellent remedy for cold-induced misery. It clears out the nasal passages while reducing inflammation, and a steamy bath is a great source of the stuff. And it’s recommended that you keep yourself warm when you’re suffering from a virus: a 2011 study showed that elevated body temperature actually helps certain elements of your immune system to function more efficiently, helping you fight off infections and general nasties. A warm bath makes your immune system work better.

Improves blood circulation:

Immersing yourself in a tub filled with water increases blood circulation to the limbs and helps in nourishment of damaged cells at the extremities. With increased blood circulation, the blood pressure reduces and the heart function also improves.

Impacts reproductive health in men:

Take a cold shower daily. A study by Thrombosis Research Institute Cold showed that the levels of male hormone testosterone increased greatly in men who took cold showers.

How positiveness helps you to overcome your every problem better

Before reading this post check out my previous post so as to understand this post better ………………………..

Amazing realistic story that becomes inspiration for adolescents

And that day when I met my doctor became a turning point. It was all we can say a persons personality
which attract you, his behaviour, way of talking everything that make me realize that except all these limitations I also have many positive things and if I use them in my life then it will even can neglect these negative thoughts.

HOW POSITIVENESS TENDS TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE COMPLETELY> > >

Positive thinking does not mean that you keep on hanging out and ignore life’s less pleasant situations. Positive thinking just mean that you approach unpleasantness in more positive and productive way.

You think a best to happen but not the worst & it often starts with self talk. You know what I was that type of girl who always need someone to make me understand, so that i can get idea what should i do, whats right and whats wrong it is also chosen by others not by me.

Because it was my self opinon that i can’t think anything about me. But days come when all become busy in their lives.In studies, business, job and even after so many struggles they are not able to get time for me.

It hurts alot I started thinking that no one loves me know that is the only reason no one call me even no one come to meet me. This feeling is usual in persons of my life stage and it needs alot of time to change…gradually days were passing and I also become a busy girl who have to deal daily with many things.

Also having study pressure which effects a lot. I was not habitual of all this .
So these all first make me sad. But then I don’t know when this criteria occur in my mind and I start self talk. I start feeling that my bro my sis all are around me in my brain and all I have to do this is just to read my self USUALLY in evening.

And the time passes away and I think about me, my sadness, my worries and gradually all the ideas begin to come up in my mind.I used to talk with myself in english because I knew I was not perfect but there was only me who can laugh if I am wrong simultaneously I walk continously upto that time which also
result as exercise. All these things develop a positive attitude in me.

HEALTH BENEFITS OF POSITIVE THINKING .>>

Researchers continue to explore the effects of positive thinking and optimism on health.

Health benefits that positive thinking may provide includes:
.Increased life span
.Lower rates of depression
.Lower levels of distress
.Greater resistance to common cold
.Better psychological and physical well being
.improve cardiovascular health
.Better coping skills during hardships and times of stress

Some people think that why people who engage in positive thinking experience
these health benefits.One theory is that having a positive attitude enables you to cope better with stress situations, which reduces harmful health effects of stress on your body.

 

Health benefits of cinnamon that you need to know

Cinnamon has been valued for its culinary, medicinal, and natural preservative powers since ancient times. First described by Shen Nung, the father of Chinese Medicine, circa 2800 BC, ancient Egyptians used cinnamon as part of the mummification process.

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There’s good reason to use cinnamon for far more than just a dash in your morning coffee or tea. Cinnamon is known to enhance your antioxidant defenses, and it’s been found to kill E. coli and many other bacteria.

Its anti-inflammatory compounds help relieve pain and stiffness of muscles and joints due to arthritis.

Cinnamon trees will be covered to ferment before their bark is stripped to make cinnamon. Cassia cinnamon is native to Indonesia, China, and Vietnam.

This tree will reach more than ten feet tall and is harvested for its bark, leaves, and buds, all of which are dried and sold.

Health benefits:

Blood sugar regulation:

In research led by U.S. Department of Agriculture, scientists found that antioxidant-rich cinnamon extract helped reduce risk factors associated with diabetes and heart disease. In the study, 22 obese volunteers with prediabetes were divided randomly into two groups.

One was given a placebo, the other a dose of dried water-soluble cinnamon extract twice a day, along with their usual diets. Fasting blood samples collected at the beginning of the study, and after six and 12 weeks revealed that the cinnamon extract improved antioxidant status, and helped reduce blood sugar levels.

The study authors concluded that consuming up to 6 grams of cinnamon per day “reduces serum glucose, triglyceride, LDL cholesterol, and total cholesterol in people with type 2 diabetes.” and that “the inclusion of cinnamon in the diet of people with type 2 diabetes will reduce risk factors associated with diabetes and cardiovascular diseases.”

 

Cut the Risk of Heart Disease:

Cinnamon has been linked with reduced risk of heart disease, the world’s most common cause of premature death.

In people with type 2 diabetes, 1 gram of cinnamon per day has beneficial effects on blood markers. It reduces levels of total cholesterol, LDL cholesterol and triglycerides, while HDL cholesterol remains stable.

Lower your bad cholesterol:

Even if you do not suffer from diabetes, you may want to include cinnamon in your diet for many of the same reasons as those who do.

As Carina Parikh, MScN, MSiMR, the holistic nutritionist for Kate Naumes ND Holistic Wellness in Dallas explains, the positive impact on Type 2 diabetes symptoms is due to a number of factors, notably “improving serum glucose, lowering fasting blood glucose, and reducing triglycerides, LDL cholesterol, and total cholesterol.” These are all benefits that can help even those not suffering from diabetes, including those with hereditary cholesterol worries or problems.

Support Weight Loss:

Cinnamon reduces blood glucose concentration and enhances insulin sensitivity. In obese and healthy-weight individuals, cinnamon is also effective in moderating postprandial glucose response.

Protects Brain Function:

Research also shows that another benefit of cinnamon’s protective antioxidant properties is that they can help defend the brain against developing neurological disorders, such as Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s diseases.

Health benefits of grapes that you must know

Grapes are widely considered as the “queen of fruits” since earlier times. These tiny berries of the Europe and Mediterranean origin are the storehouse of numerous health-promoting phytonutrients such as polyphenolic antioxidants, vitamins, and minerals. This two million tons of these berries are grown each year worldwide, with most of them being used to produce wine – 7.2 trillion gallons of wine per year, to be exact.

Health benefits:

Heart diseases:

Grapes increase the nitric oxide levels in the blood, which prevents blood clots. Therefore, grapes are an effective way to reduce the chances of heart attacks. Additionally, the antioxidants present in grapes prevent the oxidation of LDL cholesterol, which blocks the blood vessels and is a main contributor to various coronary conditions. Grapes also have high numbers of flavonoids, which are what give grapes their color, but flavonoids are also very powerful antioxidants. The two main types in grapes are resveratrol and quercetin, and these two compounds negate the effects of free radicals that threaten the body and stimulate LDL cholesterol’s harmful effects on arteries. Also, these two antioxidant flavonoids act as a clean-up crew to reduce platelet clumping and filter toxins out of the blood.

 

Makes Skin Supple:

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To make our skin supple and smooth, we resort to means like using baby products or spending a bomb on imported cosmetics. But, did you know that grapes are great exfoliating agents that can make your skin baby soft? You don’t ever have to spend on store-bought products again if you include grapes in your skin care regimen.

Mop Up Brain Damaging Plaques:

Studies at the University of Switzerland proved resveratrol’s brain-protecting ability. They found that resveratrol mopped up brain-damaging plaques and free radicals, which have been linked to Alzheimer’s disease. So powerful is this important nutrient that it has even been referred to as “Reverse-it-all” by many health practitioners.

High Blood Pressure:

Grapes are naturally full of potassium, an essential dietary mineral and major electrolyte. Your average seedless green grapes contain right around 175 milligrams of potassium per cup, red grapes nearly 290 milligrams, and black grapes 200 milligrams. It may be that low potassium intake is just as big of a risk factor in developing high blood pressure as a high sodium intake. Plus, potassium can help combat excessive sodium in the body. Grapes are recommended to those with high blood pressure to help negate the effects of sodium in the body.

Improve Brain Power:

In a British study, students given resveratrol increased blood flow to their brains by 200 percent. Scientists believe resveratrol can help speed our mental responses.

 

Protection Against Sunburns:

Sometimes, the sun is so harsh that we end up getting sunburned even if we have applied sunscreen. And sometimes, we may even forget to slather on some. No worries, nature has a solution for all problems. Grapes, surprising as it might sound, are a great home remedy for sunburns.

Kidney disorders:

Grapes can substantially reduce the acidity of uric acid and they also help to eliminate acid from the system, thereby reducing the stress and pressure on the kidneys. Since grapes have a high water content, they induce urination, which also helps to eliminate the uric acid still present in the body after its acidity is reduced. Grapes have a very cleansing effect on the body, and the antioxidants present benefit all of the body’s systems in peripheral ways.

Reasons to eat Amla everyday that you must know

Amla is a famous Indian gooseberry which is famous for its nutrients enrichment. It is a good source of Vitamin C, Iron and calcium. Amla enhances food absorption, balances stomach acid, fortifies the liver, nourishes the brain and mental functioning, supports the heart, strengthens the lungs, regulates elimination of free radicals, enhances fertility.

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Health benefits:

1. Blood Purifier:

Amla juice acts as a blood purifier by flushing out toxins from the body. Regular intake of this juice purifies your blood as well as increases hemoglobin and red blood cell counts. This means you can bid goodbye to stubborn acne and other disorders.

2. Controls cholesterol:

Regular consumption of amla juice helps in reducing cholesterol levels. Amino acids and antioxidants aid in the overall functioning of heart.

3. Improves Memory Power:

Amla rejuvenates the brain and improves memory as it is rich source of antioxidants and vitamin-c which enhances the production of norepinephrine (neurotransmitter) thus enhances the mood and brain activity. It treats the disorders like insomnia and provides relief from stress.

4. Diabetes control:

Type 2 diabetes is a rapidly growing health problem related to our increasingly poor modern diets. Blood glucose levels are particularly important for diabetics to keep under control. To this end pharmaceutical drugs are usually prescribed.

 

A recent scientific study compared the effects on fasting blood sugar of powdered amla versus a leading diabetic drug designed to bring down blood sugar. In the study just 3 grams of powdered amla a day was shown to be even more beneficial and effective than the prescription drug at controlling fasting blood sugar levels.

5. Improves eyesight:

Regular intake of amla juice helps in improving eyesight and nearsightedness and controls the onset of cataracts. It also minimizes intraocular tension and counters problems like reddening, itching, and watering of eyes.

6. Boosts Immunity:

Amla is a rich source of antioxidants and vitamins, and contains tannins. Tannins, when combined with polyphenols, makes the fruit a free radical scavenger. What this means is, it reduces the damage free radicals cause to the cells and thus improves your body’s disease fighting ability.

7. Beautifies hair:

Amla, like curry leaves, is a proven tonic for hair. It slows down graying, prevents dandruff, strengthens hair follicles and increases blood circulation to the scalp thereby improving hair growth. Amla also acts as a natural conditioner giving you soft shimmering locks. You could apply amla oil or mix amla powder into henna for a hair pack.

 

8. Prevent aging:

Amla is virtually a superfruit. It is full of antioxidants that are effective in reducing cell damage. It reduces the effects of free radicals (which are responsible for damaging protein, DNA, and cell membranes) and thus effectively combats the aging process.

Anushka Sharma’s diet plan secret revealed | healthy food diet chart

Anushka Sharma has begun her career from modelling. She did her debut movie ” Rab ne bana di jodi” in 2008 with Shahrukh khan. She has got an althelete body. Anushka is well aware about her hygiene. She said that she would never do compromise with health.

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She has endowed with an beautiful face.  Anushka practices meditation both in the morning and before going to bed. It removes all her stress and keeps her in cheerful mood all the while. Anushka practices regular workouts. At times, when she has very tight schedule and due to shooting she is not able to give time to workouts in the morning, she certainly does that in the evening.

Her diet plan

She gets up early in the morning if she has to report for her work. Otherwise, She sleeps till late. The foremost thing she do is to consume a glass of lemon water followed by tea.

 

In her breakfast, she takes eggs and a glass of fresh juice. Then she sip on coconut juice.

In her lunch, she takes pulses, chapatti and vegetables. She said that grains are must. Wholegrains are her favourite. When she eat food from home, she feels better.

She feels hungry in every two hours. She said that she took her dinner at home by 9 p.m. The last thing she do before going to bed is a glass of milk.

She said that she has a personal trainer for workout. Her comfort food is khichdi. She always carry protein bars. She drinks a plenty of water.

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In Amritsar, she did not get chance to eat langer but she ate tandoori roti. Her favorite spice is ginger and green chillies. Her favourite beverege is coconut water. In fruits, She don’t like besides bananas and apples.

She does not have sweet tooth. She does not even like chocolates.

Anushka being conscious about her diet gives 60% importance to diet for maintaining her body in shape. She refrains from junk foods for she feels that just like a mirror; our skin reflects exactly what we feed to our stomach.

And our face naturally glows when we bank on wholesome foods. Contrary to that, junk or unhealthy foods merely make us look tired and insipid.

 

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Special points:

Despite hating it, the Band Baaja Baarat star needs to hit the gym four times a week, due to her work demands. She sometimes is required to gain/lose weight for a particular project. Her gym routine involves weight training and strength training. While most of the times she is away on shoots, so she prefers a walk or a jog.

Amazing realistic story that becomes inspiration for adolescents

Hello, I am Manpreet Kaur. Currently,  I am doing my vocational B.Pharmacy degree. This story is based upon my life. So it was about that days when I was of just 13 years old means I was in juviline phase of life. That stage when a child is still immature and I was also the same. but my family think I’m bit differ from others because my behave was like child of age 10. Well my dad think its just because i m the only girl in family and my maternal family loves me so much they treat me like a little baby that is why I m as it is and if they talk about paternal family there was also bit same i was too cute and my paternal family include many members like aunt,uncle,cousin, brothers and sisters.

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That time i was totally independent. I think there was 5 houses where my paternal family members used to live. And it was me only who daily roam in all houses and do whatever i want there like to eat anything, to annoy anyone, even to vanish or to destroy anything which I don’t like because i was only little girl that time even in my street i was only girl all others were boys and you know what was best thing that they all was younger than me so usually i scold them even beat them…..it was all about fun nothing more.

 

From early morning i start doing stupid things till 9 pm after that moment when all other uncle, aunt, bro, sis go to their homes. So ,it was all about my childhood in paternal family now i move to my maternal family. Well in my whole family, we were just four girls from which two were in Hyderabad they don’t like to come Punjab and my one cousin sister (Ashu). She was I think that time was just of 7-8 years old and she was very extraordinary because she don’t like to talk with anyone, what she do whole day that after school come home and then finally after taking his lunch went and lock herself in her room and used to do dance ,study ,watch TV and enough .She never used to mix up with others..

 

That’s why one remain me who become the cutie pie of everyone my bros loved me very much. I enjoyed alot there And there was a cousin of mine name Gurjot (guggu).but i use to call him pa. Now lets begin with a very interesting part of this story.
Actually my all maternal cousins who were elder than me that time have there girlfriends so that time I thought that it is just a fashion to have a partner .So i also wish to have a boyfriend……..Finally one day i was sitting outside of my house and a boy named Rahul came there and threw a slip..When i opened that it was his phone number.Then I called him and he asked from me that I would be his girlfriend? That time i used to laugh very much he again asked will you marry me? That time there was no limits of my happiness. After finishing conversation with him I called pa and told him that I also have boyfriend but he did not bother me…not even guggu pa all that persons to whom I was telling this thing was not bothering me.

 

But everyday me and Rahul stare each other. Actually he was my senior so in break or any free time both of us stood at the doors of our classrooms and just blush…ya sometimes we used to call each other..After that finally summer vacations announced and i moved to Ropar. There I discussed with my maternal aunt and uncle that i want to marry a guy so please lets go and buy red bangles for me then they only used to laugh. Some family members just said ok ok….now go and play …..then suddenly guggu pa came both of us went upstairs again I use to convince him that really i have a bf..but again he refused to accept this.

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I was in too much anger then I went down stairs ,and after 5 mins come back having cell phone and in front of my brother I called Rahul and said I love u and I don’t know what happened to bro, he was totally in shock when I told Rahul that talk with my brother because he was not believing me that I also have a boyfriend. Rahul suddenly cut the call .Now what happens after finishing dinner me and bro come to our room and as we usually do hug each other and talk till midnight . But that night was much different bro was feeling very insecure that night then he tried to make me understand about our culture and happenings which he usually heard about young girls and boys ..That day I realize that ya its not a good thing then I back up and move on after that i never used to call Rahul and 1st love story ends here…

 

After all this stupidity, one day my friends in school were discussing about mensuration they all were suffering from mensuration and they ask me but i answered them that this shit is not happening with me when I come to home, I talk with my dad’s sis. Then she discussed with my grand ma and next day I was in hospital.Well hospital was not a big deal for me because my granny was a nurse and usually I used to went hospital just for fun and also for medicine because i was suffering from problem of uric acid. From that day my granny console about me from many doctors. Daily I took a big amount of medicines then it became a habit of mine.
Even I start feeling very guilty because all this force me to think that I am not a normal girl.

 

After my 10th, My parents sent me to Chandigarh by saying that i will be there because of my holidays only and it will be great fun there,…BUT…….O… No what happened with me they were sending me in hospital PGI, where daily doctors treat me like an experimental species so that to found whats going on inside my body.

 

Well I made some friends there like doctors, patients even nurses and other staff also.There was also a patient who became my best friend there and she was married. She have menopause(stoppage of mensuration),because of which one day her impure blood spread all in his body and she died in front of my eyes.That day become a changing day of my life I started living in a phobia of death…

 

After one and half month when doctors finally gave a result that I have just water balls inside my ovary so they prescribed me medicine and let me to went home. When I reached home, my family members were very happy. My dad took me to an another school and I got admission there. My whole life was changed no old friends, no old environment ,no that type of fun even no that cuteness.

 

I became studious simple girl who never even try to make noise no more fun and just like to study alone. I had passed my two years in that school and in that period, I was totally out of contacts with my siblings. Only books were my friends there because that school was totally different from my previous one..I passed my whole day in missing all those memories.

 

Then one day A boy from that school tell me a story ,”STORY OF A SNAKE”. He said that you know when a snake catcher used his snake flute, Then why a snake comes out ? Although snake knows that person probably gonna harm him but still he comes out from his home? I was silent. Then as a studious girl I answered very wisely that due to sound waves…..well it was not a right answer so he laughed and then told me that its not because of sound waves……its just because that snake knows that its all previously made up by this ancestors ,so its their job and his ancestors also believe that their posterity will gonna obey it. That’s why he come from his house even he know it’s very dangerous.

 

Same like this you. Your elder ones want that you also become something like them that’s why they have sent you in this school and if you passed all this precious time by crying then you did not reach to the goal …So be a good girl and try to work hard and from that day I start working hard and finally I passed out from that school as 2nd topper. My picture was on  posters ,newspapers and I was very elated.

 

Well school life finished . Like others I was also so baffled. Everyone was thinking about me that what will next then I joined IELTS and communication skill classes. But it was all about my siblings wish I was not in decision to leave INDIA. Then finally after so many dramas I took admission in B.Pharmacy in CT INSTITUTION JALANDHAR.

 

Wow 1st day of collage………new bag, new clothes, new ideas , curiosity to know about college life , about new friends, new goals of life……Many things was revolving around my mind.. I was very happy then by GOD’s will i found friends who are same as me .. my classmates all are very nice like my Ist school and I start living in this college as in my 1st school all that things come back.. All my classmates are friends. We live like family ,no love birds in class ,supporting ,helping.

 

In all these i was totally forget about my disease, I am enjoying my life. But one day, I suddenly fall down ,Doctors came home and when I opened my eyes, I was in Amritsar hospital. I met Dr. Shina, he was very nice. He make me realize that i am a special girl . All others girls are normal yes it is and anyone can marry them but me i will marry to only a special guy who 1st will accept my all limitations .My thinking level gradually tend to change .I become a strong girl.